So, what are you, a champ or a loser? Life is an on-going tournament, that you play everyday, to the death. The day you stop playing the game, win or lose, you are dead. Death is a choice you don’t have. However, the choice you do have is whether you choose to be a champion in life, or a loser. There is no "in between."

Before you declare which term describes you, do you even have a clue what the characteristics of a champion and a loser truly are? Well, let’s take a quick look at both before you stake your claim. A champion focuses on what he/she is going to do to win. A loser focuses on what will happen to him/her, good or bad (usually bad), and remains stagnant, due to fear. Which will you choose to be today, a champ or a loser? There is no gray area.

Just like life, it’s "either/or." Anything other than those two choices, are pretty much nothing but excuses, various forms of fear, and most importantly, the choice to be a loser. Here’s a simple process to be a champion in any aspect of your life, whether it be your health, relationships, family life, career, or any other aspect that matters to you.

Make a decision about what you "really" want, have the courage to take action, and commit to achieving what you want, know matter who or what. When what you really want means that much to you, then this 3 step process is not difficult at all. Not even "fear" itself can stop you from getting what you really want. If you are too afraid to claim what you want, then you need to question just how bad do you want it. Saying you really want it, is not enough.

Talk is cheap. In fact talk is just noise. remove the noise, and move toward your prize right now. I guarantee, not a week goes by without me hearing someone tell me how they have heard great things about my one of my training programs from friends, relatives, or my blogs. They go on to say how much they want to train with me; however, they want to "make sure they get in shape first" before starting a program with me.

Que? What? What part of the game is this? That’s like Amy Winehouse saying she would love to check herself into rehab, but she has to stop smoking crack first. It doesn’t make any frickin sense. I’m sorry, there is no pride in being a indecisive, non-committed, coward with no hope for their life. In fact , such characteristics is not living at all. Whoever, said winning isn’t everything, was a LOSER!

Stop following the path of losers, because their path, if they are lucky, is only a couple of steps long, due to their inability to make a decision, take action, and stick with it, during good or bad times. Today, should be the day you become the champion of all the things you want for your life. Decide on what really matters to you and what it is you want no matter want.

Take action to use the resources needed to make it happen, and do what ever it takes to see it through, despite any and all obstacles. Remember, if you are busy moving forward with your plans to win in life and are focused on what you are doing to win, you do not have time to deal with the fear of what you are not doing or whether you will fail. What is your immediate goal that you "must" accomplish, and what steps are you doing "today" to make that one thing happen, no matter what?

Are you more focused on being the biggest LOSER, or the best champion of what matters to you? Share your comments below.